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​Open Relationship, Lifestyle and Kink Guidelines
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Non-monogamous people with two partners feel more satisfaction, trust, commitment, and passionate love in their primary relationship than in their secondary. Living the lifestyle can add excitement to a couple’s relationship when they have a solid foundation of trust and connection. Being with other people in a nonexclusive erotic experience can enhance the attraction to one another. Although that may seem contradictory, the intensity and the eroticism can add an element of aliveness to the commitment.

​Living the lifestyle is more about being open to new consensual adults’ physical experiences. But before you kick up your legs and adopt that lifestyle, there are a few things to keep in mind.  Here are the negotiable tips for having a healthy open relationship lifestyle or Kinks relationship.

Discuss Everything
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The largest study, conducted in 2000 by Bellarmine University sociologists, Curtis Bergstrand and Jennifer Blevins Williams, found that 84 percent of people living open relationship lifestyle are married couples or in relationships and had been together for a little more than 10 years.

Among the open relationship lifestyle couples, marital happiness averaged 78.5 percent, compared with 64 percent of the general married population. Women on average are 31 when they embrace the lifestyle, while men are 35. Religious? Seventy-two percent belong to religious institutions, compared with 61 percent in the general population. If you’re going to make a decision like opening up your relationship/ marriage, it shouldn’t happen in a way that feels coerced or rushed. Talk about what you each want and don’t want. Talk about it before you do it.

Start Slow
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Okay, so Mr & Ms. have had a talk to open your relationship or marriages. You both are on board with the concept of getting intimate with other people. Even in this case, ease in slowly. It’s better to go in with hesitation, crossing lines with nervousness, checking in with one another, and then moving forward again. Do this while talking about how each of you feels and what the setup is doing to your relationship. Learn to communicate far more than you ever have that’s extremely important.

Jealousy is the devil, In the open relationship Lifestyle  or Kinks world, couples make their own rules around what they need within relationships and marriages and vow to abide by the boundaries set forth. It takes a committed couple to have a strong relationship the main thing within the lifestyle is honesty, if you are honest, it will work out.

Respect Each Other's Boundaries
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Always  discuss your boundaries with your partner and all that it involves. That’s the golden rule to follow in all relationships and also for life. It's an especially smart idea if you’re opening up your relationship to other consensual adults. These sorts of extra-relationship activities can get messy if both partners aren’t 100 percent in agreement. This is not about compromise. Compromise means one partner gets hurt while the other partner only gets some of what they want. This is about agreeing. Failure to do so will lead to a wreck in your marriage or relationship. If you want something but your partner doesn’t, it’s important to respect your partner’s limits. Generally, when it comes to sharing partners, there needs to be a firm foundation of consent and willingness to update the policy if one partner feels out of step.

Monogamy is not one thing; it falls on a continuum. It can mean being traditional and committed, and it can mean having open sexual behaviors with several other people. Defining it, over and over, is part of what makes a relationship work.